Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Chocolate and Good Friday


It's now a week after Easter Sunday. And I've been thinking about the connection between chocolate and Easter? Actually, isn't it because of the fasting during Lent?

"Boooo!" I say. Humbug. Who wants to think about fasting? And from chocolate? Not me! I'd rather picture that chocolaty goodness melting in my mouth and sliding down my happy gullet.

And what's the deal with Good Friday? "Boooo!" I say to Good Friday and to the death of Jesus for that matter. Who wants to think about our dead Lord hanging on the cross? I don't want to have that picture in my mind. I want to think about the resurrection goodness of the risen Jesus, gleaming in the sunshine. No dirt or sweat on his face. No blood on his clothes. A clean, alive Jesus is much more of a happy thought.

So can't you have Easter without Good Friday? A resurrection without a death? The reward of chocolate without the denial of it?

So many want to just forget Good Friday altogether and focus on the end of the week, Easter Sunday. Hurray! But I don't believe the resurrection can have the same meaning to us if we don't experience first the brokenness, the death, the blood, the sweat, and the tears, the silence and the reverence that is Good Friday. Not only was Jesus supposed to die, but maybe we too are supposed to feel the weight of it and in a way, and celebrate it and rejoice in it. Yes, I believe that to be true. Otherwise we run the risk of making the resurrection of Easter just one more celebration without the contrast of his death. No back story. One more piece of chocolate for our happy gullets without the benefit of ever going without.

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Road Trip


Destinations. Getting from point A to point B. I could drive any car and take a ride to get to wherever I want to be. But I think most of us can agree that a big part of the experience is, well, just that; the experience. We like the new-car smell of the interior, the tunes coming from the stereo, the Slurpee in the cup holder, and the obligatory fast food stop. Not to mention the "Are we there yet?" emanating from the back seat. A road trip is not only about getting to where we want to go. We do like to enjoy the ride.

It's a lot like any great piece of music or an incredible work of art. They involve two essential elements; tension and release. Bad art and cheap music don't command our attention. So we just pass it by instead of being moved emotionally and taken on a journey.


Relationships can be messy and can take lots of twists and turns that aren't always fun. God uses all those ups and downs in our lives. Tension and release shows us something of Himself and something of ourselves and how He relates to us and how we relate to each other in a fallen world. Healthy relationships are like great road trips often full of the unexpected. Where is God taking you?

Check out my video bar clip from the film, "Parenthood" below to see my point, or click here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8fXlKfLNea8

Enjoy the ride.